As it happens, my 6 weeks of radiation take place mostly during the Omer (Jewish practice of counting 49 days from Passover to Shavuot). So I’m doing a lot of counting at the moment.
I’ve completed 9 of 30 treatments. Sore spots have recently arrived in my mouth. Lovely name for them is “mucositis.” The radiation onologist noted it’s early for mucositis to start. But here we are.
This is a longer post today, so here we go…
I’m spending much of today attending (remotely) a Head & Neck Cancer Symposium for Patients & Caregivers, hosted by Stanford. It’s useful to hear perspectives that are more generally related to my situation, but not specifically curated for me. It’s hopeful/helpful, but also giving me more perspective about how much is unknown regarding my body’s long-term response to radiation.
I really wish I didn’t have to have radiation. But not doing it seemed unwise…so here we are.
Sleep has been a new focus for me, especially during weekends. During sleep, cellular repair takes place in particular ways. (I’d heard this before, but hadn’t given it much thought.)
My understanding is that radiation interferes with cancer cells by disrupting their divide-and-replicate process. It also interferes with this process in regular cells — but regular cells divide less often. Cancer cells’ replication process is more likely to be occurring (and thus be disrupted) during the very brief period of daily radiation.
I get radiation M-F, with a break on the weekend. Studies have shown that treatment 7 days/week doesn’t lead to better outcomes compared to 5 days/week. Turns out the weekend break is probably useful for the body’s non-cancer cells to repair and recover from radiation. Since sleeping provides special opportunity for repair, I’m really prioritizing sleep during weekends.
So, it feels like I have less time. I’m not using weekends to see people as much, I’m not making many plans…because I want to be able to rest whenever I get a sense of tiredness. Naps aren’t my usual routine, but I’m giving them a shot some days.
Overall, at this point about 1/4 of the way through treatment, I’m holding a lot of uncertainty. When will my food intake shift to soft foods? (I’m still eating solid food, though I chew & swallow more slowly than usual.) When will mouth sores get more painful? When will other symptoms kick in? How long will they last? Worrying or stressing about it won’t change the course of things, so I’m trying to just sit with the unknowns. I mostly just need to get through it, best as I can, and doing what I can to come out strong on the other side.
Being present in the current moment is helpful, and remembering I have a strong body, a healthy mindset, and a really good support network.
Thank you all for being a part of my support network. Local friends providing rides, running errands, and making dinners for C — it’s all really helpful. Everyone keeping me in mind for healing thoughts/prayers, sending cards — that’s also making a difference. Please know that even if I haven’t said an individual “thank you,” I’m feeling your love and appreciating you.
Sending everyone wishes for good health and a restful Shabbat and weekend.